"I think one of the mistake people generally make, and I'm guilty of it too, is wishful thinking, you want something to be true even if it isn't true, you ignore the real truth, because of what you want to be true, that is a very difficult trap to avoid! "
So here we pointed out a very important problem we do each and every single day, and maybe even each minute, I'll tell you why in a sec.
You have a desire to be filthy rich, you dream about it every single day, and you can't imagine that you could complete your life just as everyone, earning average and living average.
But you have bad spending habits that are stopping you, you don't budget, and you don't even know how much exactly you get and spend everyday, you don't keep track of your finances, you spend more than you earn, and you know for sure that is stopping you from catching your dreams! but you better choose to think wishfully, to say maybe when I earn more I'll manage my money better, and this is wrong wrong wrong WRONG
There's an inspiring quote that I want to mention here because it fits perfectly, and it says: : Our main business is not to see what lies dimly at a distance, but to do what lies clearly at hand. -Thomas Carlyle
So sometimes we just think and wonder about the future, and maybe even worry about it, while we could make the present better which will, as a result, make our futures better, it's easy to think about the future and just, Wish! But, it's more efficient to focus on the present and make every day of our lives count.
The bottom line is, quit wishful thinking, don't think that something will change without you doing so, don't think that someone will just knock and deliver your dreams to your door, I'm not saying don't be optimistic, but the exact opposite.
If you want something, go get it, don't wait for it to come, you could do anything in this world if you really want to do it enough, you're better than waiting for opportunities, make your own opportunities with consistent personal developing, reading, learning, practicing, exercising, working, Look! they all have "ing"s because they are verbs, you are the doer!
I really hope that you enjoyed reading this, I wish you a great successful life personally and professionally, and thanks for your precious time.